LOVE??? Most people who claim to love someone don't really love them, because they don't know what is love actually is. What is LOVE to me? For me, To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future. Because people change all the time, so if you love the person you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. The true love is unconditional. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what. Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. Most people are in relationships because they are horny or lonely. Even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their equipment for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional. In order to truly understand love, you must ask yourself because you are the only person who can tell you what LOVE is.
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